Have you found yourself being constantly rejected by even some of the most unattractive women? For some guys, knowing exactly what to say doesn’t come naturally, and it is quite sad. But in reality, no one on this planet knows exactly what to say, they just need to know what not to say. So, without further ado, here are the things you should not say around a woman and the reasons why she ends up getting turned off:

1. All women are self-conscious about their weight, even if they are 5′5 and weight only 110 pounds. Most of them will always view themselves as being at least slightly overweight. It is your job as a guy to reassure them that they are thin, beautiful, and that no other woman has anything on them when it comes to looks. So, when a girl asks you, “do I look fat or overweight in this? never say, “Yes”. You are practically begging her to break up with you when you make any sort of reference to her as being fat. “Do I look fat?” is probably one of the most frequently asked and annoying questions asked by women. But no matter what, remember that the answer is always, “no, you do not look fat”.

2. It is a known fact that all women love to talk. If they had it their way, that is all they would do. Talking is how they sort out their feelings and deal with just about every aspect in life. Unlike males, women never run out of things to say. Men are very different in this area, even when it comes to listening. They seem to have this almost magical “tune out” button that comes on out of nowhere, especially when they are around women – even the one’s the like. One of the worst things a guy can tell a woman is that she talks too much. Never say that, no matter what. It will only hurt her feelings and make her feel disrespected. It may seem difficult, especially for a guy, but instead of telling her to “shut up”, or “you talk to much”, just listen the best you can or simply change the subject to something more interesting in a polite manner.

3. If the girl you are in love/deep like with wants to make out, let her make the first move. Showing interest in her personality first is what will make her want to kiss you. A woman wants nothing to do with a guy who is shallow and only after one thing. Rudeness, disrespect, and selfishness are what women try to steer clear from. Let her be the one who sends the signals and signs she wants to kiss you. Never tell her, “let’s just hurry up and get it over with”, or “let’s make out already”. Saying these things will cause her to view you as hasty and impatient. Not to mention, saying these things will kill the mood and turn her off completely.

Avoiding making these mistakes will take you a long way in life when it comes to gaining respect and recognition from women. Always remember that women love men whom they feel are sweet, nice, and confident. Cockiness, arrogance, and rudeness are never good qualities to possess around a woman. Focus on only saying this which is positive when you are around the girl you like. And if you have to think twice about it, it is better to just keep it to yourself.