What to do when you don’t like her kids

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If you happen to be in a relationship with a woman with children and you don’t like her kids then you could be in for a break up. Whether or not you like her children will have a lot to do on the actual relationship. You will more than likely need to give yourself an ultimatum in this situation.

Give Them a Chance

How much time have you really spent around these kids? They probably are not very big fans of yours either. You will need to remember that you are coming into their life and dating their mother, it is not something that is very comfortable for children to have to deal with. They may be acting more hostile around you because they don’t think that you should be with their mother. Prove them wrong and win them over.

Unfixable

If your problems with the children are not something that you can fix then you may need to move on. Her children are going to be very important to her and you do not want to make her choose as this will usually not end well in your favor. If you think that you will never be able to have a good, healthy relationship with this woman because of her kids then you shouldn’t force it.

Telling Her

Don’t tell her that you not liking her children are the reason for your break up. Mentioning that you don’t think that you can date a person with children or that you do not think that you are all a good fit may be a better way of wording it.

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